The Panache of Possession....!!!

Have you ever realised the panache of possessing something? Everyone of us has many possessions since we are born. Normally people are very possessive about their materialistic dominions. But here i am not talking about materialistic possessions. For me the people collateral is of more importance than any other possession in this world. There is a panache in possessing lots of people in a true sense.I am not referring to my admirers here, but of people who know my true self, the people in my 'close circle'. They might criticize me at times, but these are the people who will always love me in a true sense in any damn circumstances in my life, even if I am in any part of the world. My aunt always says, "Earn people more than you earn money". But I never realised it until this day.
I am possessive about my close people, doesnt mean I dont share them with anyone, everyone has to do that. But then there is also a great joy in sharing your people possession, bcoz by sharing you earn one more person as your "possession" with whom you are sharing. The most recent example in my life I can give is my sister's marriage. I was really very possessive about her and dint want to share her with my Jiju. But I had to. But later on, looking at it in a positive way i could see the elegance of sharing my possession. I also learnt a lesson that 'sharing your possession' not only helps you to enhance and enrich your 'bursary of people possessions' but also helps you to ingest and digest the feeling of sharing. The more you share, the more you possess.
The paraphernalia of materialistic joys has also plays a vital role in our life to some extent.
I am not a sage to get rid of my material possessions, but then it is of secondary importance to me. Because these tangibles can stay only for sometime in your life, but people possession stays throughout your life. Even if you lose a material dominion, you can earn it back through your people collateral. That's where the panache lies and that is why I cherish my 'bursary of people possessions' more than my bursary of my bank account.

The Enigma Called Life...

Life is an enigma, a bit difficult, a bit easy and a bit strange...If you try to solve it, it complicates more, but if you leave it and let it take its own course, you get the solutions. It depends totally on you how you take it. I have realised this most recently. To get more out of life, you should learn to live every moment whether good or bad with all your heart. All this is philosophy, but recently I have realised that your happiness is in your own hands.You have the ability to shape up your life. But of course, people you meet also play a very vital role in shaping your life. I have experienced that ;the more positive energy you transfer to people, the twice of that comes back to you. There are all kinds of people around you always, admirers who boost your positive energy, jealous who try to look you down and also people who dont like you at all without any reason..But ignoring them is the only solution..Infact, these jealous and critics only in a way give you energy to fight, to prove yourself.In marathi, there is a saying, 'Nindakache ghar asave shejari' which means critics should be your neighbors, they bring out the true potential in you.
The inner self motivation is the reason which keeps me going...The biggest reason for this self motivation is my mom who has built up my strong mental foundation..I count my blessings for the early-life influences of my family on me...In many ways, we all are surrounded by such people all the time--sometimes they are siblings, sometimes friends, teachers, co-workers..
As we grow and get into the concrete busyness of people, we lose our capacity to recieve from people..The capacity to recieve enhances only when there is willingness to give back..the more we give, the more we are blessed to recieve back..
Coming to Bangalore from Pune was the start of a new phase of my life.Initially I was shuddered at the thought of my displacement from Pune but later on was able to visualise the positive side of it. But still it was probably my first real brush with xenophobia
and alienation. When we get out of our house all alone, is the time when we start valuing our home and people we have there much more.So, at some point of time you should stay away from your family, friends and relatives at least to realise their worth in your life..When you are displaced and away from your comfort zone(family), you interact with people more and make friends easily..Also you have very less expectations from the unfamiliar surroundings, so you are more pleasantly surprised than frustrated when faced with life's many ups and downs...
Dispalcement to Bangalore has also taught me to explore everything around me, explore new culture , customs, food and new ways of doing things. I have learnt to survive on my own inner strength of who I am, just for this day, today.I have learnt how to tackle with problems all alone and how to deal with people in professional life and also trust strangers, who in turn trusted me.
The biggest lesson I have learnt is to move on and not engulf yourself in past pains and sorrows.
If you dont move on, u will miss the chances of the probable future luck..

Much more to write stilll.......to be continued.............